They don't define you!

How many times have we heard people comment on our appearance and bring us down with their looks of disapproval. For most of us these actions cut deep and cause us to feel insecure. We take their words in and think...
"Damn have I really put on that much weight?!"
"Does my skin look so bad that these people can't get over my acne!!"
"Why won't they stop staring at me!"

All you want to do during these moments is climb into a shell and sit there like a hermit away from the world. All that does is give them the victory of defining you!

Take control of your life and who you are! Don't let the world define you! So what if you put on a few extra kg's, let them know how much you enjoyed that cake while doing so! So what if you have a few little spots because of stress, inform them that you have been working hard and becoming successful (while they just sit around judging people)!!

And if they are staring... Smile wider, fluff up like a peacock and give them something to stare at!

Only you can define you! YOU fit into these words: Beautiful! Talented! Lovable! Funny! Charming! Pretty! Fun! *and any other word that best describes your most endearing qualities!

Remember that the world can't define you until you first define yourself, so show them what you are really made of, and if they don't see it... Then who cares what they think anyway. I, for one, know that you are AMAZING.

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